Assalamualaikum wbt
Sometimes, there is thing that words can't say it enough. I inevitably have a few things that couldn't let them out to reach the person I was supposed to say them to. Things just happen that sometimes we are speechless to present ourself out. And that is so me. I have noticed that days go by, I become more verbally disable to point out myself or my view.
Two days ago, I read an article about gaining self confidence and how to bring our true colours to the public without feeling ashame of our lacks or what-so-ever disability we own in life. As conclusion, it emphasizes the value of treasuring we as we are and the policy of honesty as the best property. These are actually the very basic ideas of becoming we as we ourselves. I believe in this.
As for me, I add on one more basic idea to become me as myself. As long as I know that what I am doing and what I am aiming for are not relatively inverse from Allah's rules of life, whether in the matter of quality or quantity.
And I believe even we have problem to deliver our feelings or thoughts verbally, we always have some other options that can help. It might be by writing, SMS-ing, emailing, drawing, giving prizes or maybe just by our body language.
Which option is my choice? I would say that, my choice is du'a (prayer) as it may reach the person even he/she is millions miles away apart from me.
I am not the best person to talk on this. I rest my case.
Note: My deepest condolence to my abang ak47 for the death of his father (23/11/2007). May the strength be with you and may he rest in peace. Al-Fatihah.
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Hari buat dia:
69) First is to be understanding, then is to be understood - Stephen Covey


24 comments:
wahh, postings kak sarah yang baru2 ni sangat ambiguous. Ada apa2 kah?
;P
P/s: lagu 1000 tahun nie sangat syahdu.
sarah, u know where to reach me! klau ada ape2 cakap jer dgn azah ek!
Ngah,
salam takziah pada Khairil atas pemergian ayah dia.
Hazreen:
kan ks dh kata ks verbally disable to deliver my feelings/thoughts so sengaja writtenly ambiguous plak.. huahua. hep hep. ada apa2 apa plak ni eh? ish ish dia ni :p
dan ks mmg sgt suka lagu ni. too poetic. n meaningfull
Azah:
sy nak cakap pd azah yg sy rindu banyak org. dan 1 of them is azah!
Ayah:
Insya Allah ayah. nnti ngah sampaikan.
Sarah...takkan rindu ngan Azah ajer...
ini tidak adil!
hahha hahha :D
yeah..kdg2 lidah tak mampu nk brkata2 even sbnrnya byk yg bk dikatakn..
ak ek ah em
..........P..a..U..s..E............
Idak semestinya semua rasa kena disampaikan, ada yang patut disimpan dalam peti beku buat bekal sendiri-sendiri. Ya entry nya sudah menghala ke 'rasa'. Huha. Moskva.
May:
eh, may merajuk ke?
okeh okeh. rindu sama may jgk. jom kita gegar2 blog makcik de'kipas tu jom.
Cik Noha:
Haah.. exactly!
Oneib:
eh, x betul ke apa sy tulis ni? mmg betulla kn. ada org yg dia x reti nak sampaikn pendapat dia dgn bercakap. jd dia perlukan medium lian. contohnya menulis. mcm sy ni la. geram ke, apa ke, sume sy tulis je. mulut x bukak2 jgk. hmm..
Yasir:
kalau sy, mmg itu la sy kot. sy bukan simpan sikit, sy simpan banyakkkk sgt. naturally skrg ni dh jd org yg pendam je apa yg dirasa. 'rasa'? ish.. ramai betul yg salah tangkap kot dgn apa yg sy nak smpaikan. takde menuju ke mana2 pun. mcm apa yg sy terang kt Oneib kt atas, sy skdar nak cerita yg mcm org2 yg mcm sy ni, option lain la yg membantu kalau dgn cara bercakap, tak cukup berkesan utk menyampaikan apa je yg nak kita sampaikan. the range is vast. u can touch down abt the feeling of emptiness and might go up to mirthfully joyous. sbb mmg lumrah, ramai org yg sebenarnya tak terluah apa yg dia rasa dlm hati dgn kata2.
huha. Eta Moskva!
salam..
akak..
nk tahu..Pak Lah nk dtg cairo!!!
PM ada lawatan kat sini..nk jumpe kitorg jugakk..hehe
so kitorg stat cuti 3 hari!bestnyaa cuti sbb next week ada test histo..
hmm kalau boleh,nk ckp kat PM ,naikkan scholar..sbb rumah kami(student first year) mahal sgt..hehe..harap2 diplomasi kami berjaya..hehe
lama tak lawat blog akak ni..
akak,jaga diri ye..
p/s:kak, nk mintak tunjuk ajar..mcm mana akak masukkan lagu dlm blog?hehe pls sifu..hehe
lagi satu
akak tahu berita pasal dr faiz kena pukul baru2 ni?
masuk dlm utusan..
kasihan dr faiz..
hmm justt nk bg tau sbb akak kan rapat ngn dr faiz..kay kak,nk pegi kelas ni!
singgah cc time lunch..
hehe
salam ks,
lame dah tak tinggal jejak kat my world nih. just melawat je.. first of all, nak ucapkan takziah untuk abg ak47 atas ape yang berlaku..
second, wanie tak tahu ape ks rase sekarang tp wanie harap ks sabar je la.. doa tu mmg jalan terbaik untuk sape2 pon. wanie pon bukan org yang sgt bagos untuk cakap ape2 sbb wanie sendiri pon belom tentu mampu untuk handle prob wanie sendiri..
ape pon, i know u can handle it very well. if u fall down, all of us will fall down too.. because u r our model ks! chaiyok!!
hmm...if words can't say 'it' enough..let them be. because sometimes these 'it' things will eventually speak for themselves without we realizing it,and yeah, as long as there's honesty.
salam Ngah,
sampaikan salam takziah utk abg ak47 and family...
u too, take care
sometimes, words cant say it enough..
sometimes, in some expressions; it can be much more than words can say..
its okay if its hard for u to express the things u hv in mind or heart..
manipulate the words playing in the head,exploit the words stucked in the sincere heart,
as long as u hv a channel to pour ur thoughts,
u will do fine.
ha a :)
must be something is bothering you at the time you write the article...just take it in a stride sarah...
just pray and doa a lot...things will get better in no time...
Mood macam tak baek je ni :)
Apa sekali yang dihadapi, Sarah pasti sudah ada ramai yang sudi berkongsi rasa tak besh Sarah tu :)
Jangan simpan-simpan..
Jaga diri baek-baek sarah sayang :)
Oh terlupa..
Sekarang sarah sayang dah ada yang istimewa kan kan kan untuk berkongsi cerita gembira dan sedih..
ehem ehem!
La la la la~
Fathiyyah:
Salam Thia. oo yeke.. sila la berjumpa dgn pak sedara dlm mimpi akk tu :) n semoga hajat nk mintak naik scholar tu dapat. tp akk faham. mmg skrg harga sume bend kt luar ni naik berganda kn. sakit kpla pikir.
psl lagu ni, kamu sign up account di imeem.com. then kamu boleh either creat playlist sendiri or amik je mana2 sepcific lagu yg kamu suka then amik code yg disediakn. then embed la di html blog kamu (cutomize it). mcm tu je. faham ke? harap2 kamu faham ye :) psl dr. faiz tu akk tau dh. thnks sbb 'concern' nak bgtau akk psl ni. dlm minggu ni je, ramai sungguh org contct akk nk inform psl ni. adui..
Wanie:
ks tengah ok la.. knp semua org fikir ks x ok ni???? apa yg ks tulis mmg sekadar pendapat. hmmm...................
n im not down. im full of spirit n bla bla bla. hmmm...................
Reza:
haah. im so agree with u. sometimes things speak for themselves much better than words can do.
Nisa My Dear:
im sure he has read thru ur msg here. i'll. u take care too.
Husna:
thnks usna. im agree with u. but sgt tak faham why pple misunderstand with this entry? sigh...
Oneib:
yeap..
UncleJ:
im very ok n fine here Uncle. nothing is bothering neither me is being bothered. thnks for ur advice. but seriously im very2 fine.
Cik Ati:
aaaa..kenapa ni... sy ok la.. knp sume org ingt sy x ok.. skrg sy dh mula rasa x ok sbb org ingt sy x ok... thats what bother me more.
yeke ada org utk sy kongsi cerita gembira n sedih? mana dia? x nampak pun.. huhu
PEOPLE, PLEASE...IM VERY OK N FINE. WHAT MAKES ME FEEL BOTHERED IS WHEN PEOPLE THINK THAT I AM NOT FINE. AND WHEN PEOPLE THINK THAT I AM BOTHER BY SOMETHING. THAT REALLY BOTHERS ME.
CAN I STOP BLOGGING?
SINCE MY WRITING MAKES PEOPLE MISSUNDERSTAND ABOUT MANY THINGS..
SIGH..
Al-Fatihah
Takziah pada abang ak47 awak....
p/s : sayapun amat suka mendengar lagu 1000 tahun tu... terngiang2 di telinga saban waktu....
Rasa macam kena dengan apa yang baru berlaku pada saya lately...
Arsaili:
Al-Fatihah...
Anonymous:
Terima kasih bg pihak ak47.
sy pun sgt suka lagu tu. penuh makna utk sy. ehem. apa yg terjadi pd awk lately? mind to share :)
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